Sexual orientation is almost always fixed. By this I mean that people may brand the homosexual orientation as something that is so complicated in nature, however I should say that it is something that one is; a chosen orientation. Actually its fine with me into how we must show respect in the society but the truth of the matter is homosexuals like me always face discrimination in public. We must in some way strive for sexual integration with regards to giving respect to that norm. This is in order for those who belong to the third sex to show respect to the society.

People say that homosexuals should avoid identifying their personhood with their sexual orientation for reason that they are more as persons than the single aspect of their personality and that is their orientation. Personally, I find this belief so pathetic and absurd because sexual orientation as an aspect of one’s personality simply suffices the entirety of a person. Thus, it is the factor that has an incomparable volume. Moreover, an orientation that is genetically predetermined plus some unknown environmental factor in early childhood which turns on the gene or genes, can never be integrated and label as a small chunk of being a human person.

Conceded to the fact that there are various instances that homosexual faces day by day, these unjust discriminations against their principles and beliefs which the people use as basis in their prejudices, is an unfair truth for the lady butterflies in the society. Nevertheless, the issue on homosexuality can only be addressed by our deep understanding of our human vocation that we deem very significant in our role as human beings and citizen of a community. It is involvement that we need and not insecurities and insensitivity of other persons’ rights. I do believe that by being highly involved in different issues concerning our rights as human beings regardless of what sexual orientation we belong, it will set us free from the clutches of our own insecurities.

For as long as I believe that neither heterosexuality nor homosexuality are inherently sinful, free of sin if it is safe, consensual, and perhaps, within a committed relationships, therefore, I will stand and proudly say that it should be supported not only by the society but as well as in the faith of every homosexual who upholds the right of being one. Homosexuality is not a personal sin. It does not make a human person sick or perverse. The question remains is this; how will one ensure a protection to the unending quest for acceptance and space in the world filled with judgmental eyes.

PS: I posted this blog entry in friendster... I just love the thought that I fight for the right advocacy-gay rights movement. xoxo